Cultivating Thanksgiving in Every Season of Life
The season of Thanksgiving invites Jesus-followers to come before the Lord with joy, encouraging praiseworthy focus on how good is the God we serve.
We gather together on this Thanksgiving weekend to extend gratitude to God for the many blessings he has showered upon us as a church. We happen to assemble today just after celebrating last Sunday 110 years of ministry in the Covina Valley. This is a season of thanksgiving as we offer our praise to God.
Some days it all just comes together perfectly; the way it should. For many reasons, today is one of those kinds of days. For nothing could describe the posture of our heart, at this very moment, better than thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is like water rushing in to bring new life and fresh perspective. Thanksgiving lightens the soul and renews the wonder of the life we've been given. It's amazing what happens when thanksgiving replaces apathy, lethargy or bitterness.
Thanksgiving can be applied to any season of life. Whether we find ourselves at beginnings, middles or ends, or in some combination, thanksgiving can become the quality in which we live out our days, our relationships, and our circumstances. King David understood the power of thanksgiving. The book of Psalms, which contains journal-like entries of David, is full of examples and benefits of living a life of thanksgiving and praise to God.
Thanksgiving readjusts our vision: thanksgiving cleanses our perception. If we would wipe motor oil, grease, or even paint on our hands, these things will leave traces. The things we touch often leave traces. We take it for granted really, but it's an interesting reality. When we touch something it leaves a mark of some kind, reminds us that we've been exposed to that something. This idea is more than a physical reality though; it's also true for the soul. The traces of everyday life left on the soul are a bit harder to see but no less real. We can consider a rich conversation with a good friend, or a difficult meeting at work, or a feeling of awe at sunset. These are all moments that leave a mark on the soul. Some of these traces cause us to grow frustrated, tired and even bitter. What will we do? There are a number of cleaning solutions that help to clean our physical hands. I remember when I was a kid, after my dad worked on our car; he would use Lava soap to clean his hands. He’d get his hand wet; he'd rub that soap all over his hands and arms and then rinse with water. I loved that. Of course, lava soap left traces as well. So, after the soap we'd put on hand cream to take away the soap smell.
The marks of everyday life, left on the soul, if we're not careful can lead to inappropriate anger, raw sarcasm or a low-grade apathy that inhibits us from joy, compassion and peace. This is why the practice of giving thanks is so critical to our health. Thanksgiving cleanses our perception. We notice the Psalmist gives thanksgiving to God for his faithfulness and then the result of that thanksgiving produces a kind of new strength that readjusts the Psalmist’s vision. Thanksgiving helps us to avert those attitudes that would send our souls south into anemia of spirit. The interesting thing is that thanksgiving cleanses our vision by helping us to place our vision on something and someone bigger than ourselves. It lifts us beyond ourselves so that we can again see a deeper sense of God's presence, the wonder of life and the reason we’re here. And that leads to living in thanksgiving.
A little boy went to a birthday party. On his return, his mother inquired, "Bobby, did you thank the lady for the party?" "Well, I was going to. But a girl ahead of me said, 'Thank you,' and the lady told her not to mention it. So I didn't.” We all recognize that little Bobby broke a social rule – we always say thanks to our host or hostess. This is true for God too. When it comes to thanking God, we can't remain silent and we must not remain silent. This giving of thanks, especially to God, is recorded throughout the Psalms.
Psalm 100:1-5 1Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. 2 Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. 3 Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. 4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. 5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
The Psalmist’s words call us into God’s presence based upon the revelation of who God is. This psalm also makes our worship an end in itself, rather than the means to another end, such as our own inspiration. This psalm is a hymn that may have served in a season of festival procession. This season of thanksgiving moves from praise in God’s presence to praise in God’s palace.
From Rural Pastures to Urban Gates
This psalm is one of descriptive praise. It praises God for his ongoing, regular care of the world and humanity. Hence God is the one who characteristically provides and is worthy of praise. We learn from this psalm that praise and worship is simple. This psalm consists of two mini-hymns which begin from rural pastures and leads to urban gates.
This psalm of praise leads us to three expressions of thanksgiving:
We take action by bringing the right spirit to worship
1 Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. 2 Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.
We take action by bringing the right spirit to worship in three ways:
A shouting spirit - We are told to shout for joy. When all things are put together, we can see that the Psalmist is calling on the people of the Lord to raise an anthem of praise from their hearts to the Lord. This is a challenge to participate in the public worship. We are God’s cheerleaders as the Spirit of God prompts us in worship.
A serving spirit – We are told to worship the Lord with gladness. This verse is telling us that we are to worship or serve the Lord with laughter. We are to be so filled with love for God that regardless of what God asks us to do; we are pleased to do it. This is the attitude that filled the Psalmist’s heart. He was filled with gladness when it was time to go to church.
The word "gladness" is an interesting word. It carries with the meaning of being "wide-eyed with a big grin". It brings to mind the unvarnished joy of a child. When something happens that they like, it affects the whole body! The mouth flies open, the eyes get wide, the face lights up, the heart lifts and the soul rejoices. Such should be the delight for us old sinners as we come to serve the Lord our God who has redeemed us from death and Hell by Christ’s precious blood!
A singing spirit - Here, we are told to approach the Lord our God with "singing". This little word refers to "the ringing cry, the shout of joy." Our hearts should be so filled with the wonder of who God is and what God has done for us that we allow his praises to burst forth from our inner being in thanksgiving.
These first two verses tell us that when God is in our lives, we will not be able to hide him! We will not keep God a secret for very long! We can't have someone the size of God in our heart without God getting out now and then! Sometimes God will run out our eyes. Sometimes, God will show up in our raised hands. Sometimes, God will run up our throat and over our vocal cords and make us shout. The fact is that we will not be able to hide God. So we take action through a shouting, serving, and singing spirit!
We give account by bringing the right surrender to worship
3 Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
We give account by bringing the right surrender to worship in three ways:
Surrender to the person Of God - We are told to "know" that the Lord is God. This word means "to make a distinction" We are to know that he and he alone is God! Who is our God? Well, the answer is simple: what do we give the most of your time, attention and money to? Whatever answers that question is our God! Have we made the right distinction and acknowledged God Almighty as the Lord of our lives?
Surrender to the purpose Of God - Next, we are reminded that we are what we are because God has "made" us. This word simply means "to take some material and fashion something new out of it!" God took the clay that was us and formed a new creature out of it by his power. Regardless of what we represent, we are what we are by the power of God. We need to realize that God saved us for a purpose. God didn't just redeem us to keep us out of Hell. God didn't redeem us so that we could feel good from time to time. God didn't do it so that we could look down on our long, religious noses at our lost neighbors and feel superior. God saved us so that we might serve him. God has a plan for our lives. God will use us if we will serve him!
Surrender to the promise Of God - We are "the sheep of His pasture". This statement simply reminds us that we belong to God and just as a shepherd looks after the welfare of his flock, so our Lord looks after us with infinite care. The Psalmist had this nailed down in his own life in Psalm 23. We need to get it nailed down in our lives also. The problem we have is that many of us have not yet learned to trust God as we should. We pray about a need and then promptly try to meet it ourselves. That is totally impossible! We need to get to the place where have knocked out all the props that support us and totally commit ourselves to a life of faith, trusting the Lord to take care of us and watch over our lives.
If we are his sheep, God will take care of us. If God can't, then he isn't much of a God. So we give account of a life surrendered to the person, purpose, and promise of God!
We show appreciation by bringing the right sacrifice to worship
4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. 5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
We show appreciation of God by bringing the right sacrifice to worship in three ways:
Praise God for his goodness – We are instructed to enter the gate of God’s presence with thanksgiving and praise. The Lord is "good." This seems like a limited description for God, but the word good means “pleasant, beautiful, delightful, glad, joyful, precious, correct and righteous. It can also mean, expensive." Everything God does is an expression of his goodness. We can praise our God because he is good. Regardless of what happens in life, God is good. No matter how things turn out, God is still good! Therefore, we praise Him for His goodness. “God is good; God is good all the time!”
God is good. This means he not only shares himself with us. It also means he satisfies us, fills us to the brim, and meets our God-created needs. I am not sure why we often take a can of soda and try to fit it all into a glass that is not quite big enough. We just have to get every last single drop into the glass. The glass gets fuller and fuller but we just keep pouring. God is that way. God fills us to the brim and even above the brim to overflowing. God is good, so he satisfies the needs of all his creatures. That is why we all can testify that God satisfies our needs. On this Thanksgiving weekend we rejoice in the God who has shared his goodness with us by satisfying our needs.
Praise god for his grace - Next we are told that God's "love endures forever." We can praise God because he is constantly extending his love to us as we go through life. We live in a time when everyone wants what's coming to them. However, if we got what was coming to us, we would get Hell. If we got what we deserved this morning, we'd experience the undiluted wrath and fierceness of the Almighty. Instead of that, God deals with us in love. God holds back his wrath from off our lives. Why? 2,000 years ago God's Son, Jesus, took our place on an old, cruel, Roman cross. While Jesus was dying there, all our sins were transferred to him and he died in our place. That is a good reason to praise the Lord!
Praise god for his guarantee - We are told that God's "faith continues to all generations." Simply stated, while the years pile up, not a single promise of God's Word will fail! God cannot lie, and what God has promised will be as good in 10,000 years as it was the instant he promised it. When God tells us he loves us, we can count on it. When God tells us he’ll save us if we come to him, we can count on it. If God tells us that he'll take care of us, we can count on it. If God tells us he is coming back to get us, we can count on it. If God tells us he'll keep us secure in his grace, we can count on it. Suffice it to say that if the Lord tells us anything at all, we can count on it. And, that is a good reason to give thanksgiving to the Lord!
So we show appreciation to God for his goodness, grace and guarantee by bringing the right sacrifice!
God is the Song…we are his singers God is the Creator…we are his creation God is the Shepherd… we are his sheep God is the Blessed One…we are the blessed ones God is Love…we are his loved ones
“Give Thanks to Him and Praise His Name”
Let’s get practical. What are we really thankful for on this Thanksgiving weekend?
Ten things to be thankful for:
1. for automatic dishwashers. They make it possible to get out of the kitchen before the family comes in for their after-dinner snacks.
2. for husbands who attack small repair jobs around the house. They usually make them big enough to call in professionals.
3. for the bathtub -- the one place the family allows Mom some time to herself.
4. for remote controls – the one item that allows Dads to exercise some control in the family.
5. for children who put away their things and clean up after themselves. They're such a joy you hate to see them go home to their own parents.
6. for gardening. It's a relief to deal with dirt outside the house for a change.
7. for teenagers. They give parents an opportunity to learn a second language.
8. for mini-vans. They make it possible for Mom to run a shuttle service so they don’t have to spend vacation money on hiring taxi assistance.
9. for cell phones. They make it possible for unlimited talk time so teenagers don’t tie up the family phone line for hours.
10. for smoke alarms. They let you know when the turkey's done.
We can be sure that we are thankful for all of these things too. However, we can equally be sure we are thankful for different reasons. On this Thanksgiving weekend we are gathered together to count blessings, and many others as well. We are gathered together to give thanks to God who has provided 110 years of ministry in the Covina Valley.
Jim Stovall writes a delightful book entitled The Ultimate Gift. The question is posed—“What would you be willing to do in order to inherit one billion dollars? When Jason Stevens receives the news of his great uncle Red’s death, he is greedy with anticipation—as are Red’s other relatives—to divvy up the man’s massive fortune. Jason finds quite a fate in store for him to gather up his uncle’s inheritance. He begins a yearlong quest of discovery as he searches for his stake in “The Ultimate Gift.”
One of the lessons on this yearlong quest that Jason needs to learn is the gift of gratitude. Jason needs to learn the following lesson: “in those times when we yearn to have more in our lives, we should dwell on the things we already have. In doing so, we will often find that our lives are already full to overflowing.” Jason’s uncle passes on the legacy of the “Golden List” which represents ten things to be thankful for. He is directed by his uncle via video tape to think about those ten things he has to be thankful for. And when he returns at the end of the month, he is to share his version of the “Golden List” with his uncle’s guardian of the trust.
So how would we complete the “Golden List” of ten things for which we are thankful for this Thanksgiving? Let’s write down on our message notes the ten things we are thankful for on our “Golden List.” Allow me to share my list.
The Golden List…
I am thankful for my health. Even though my health needs have been challenged these past few years, I know of several people who have physical problems greater than the ones I face. So I will always be thankful for the health God has given to me.
I am thankful for my family. I have a wonderful family who loves me and supports me in my life and ministry. It is a joy to be together with my children and grandchildren. They bring great joy to my life. My wife of 38 years is my greatest supporter.
I am thankful for my ministry. I have had the privilege of being a member of this fellowship for 30 years. I have served on staff 23 of those years. God continues to bless me and challenge me as a pastor. I know the best is to come as I lay ministry in his hands.
I am thankful for my friends. Although it is difficult to build a number of intimate friendships as a pastor in ministry, God has placed me in a small group for over twenty-years. My stretcher-bearers carry me in so many ways through all seasons of life.
I am thankful for my home. God has blessed me with a place to come home to and rest. I have been able to share my home with other people and have come to appreciate it myself. We can construct a house, but only God can build a home.
I am thankful for my education. Throughout my life, I’ve had the opportunity to learn from the finest institutions. I have grown and matured through the years because of gifted teachers and professors who helped me see the big picture of life.
I am thankful for my station in life. I have learned that I have missed many important things in my life thus far; however, I feel that the years I’ve lived can help me conquer any obstacle. My spiritual wisdom helps me to overcome my physical weakness.
I am thankful for my spiritual connections. I have been greatly blessed with spiritual gifts, a personal style, and passion for serving God that equips me to minister in my sweet spot through substantial ways. I want to lead a life of significance, not success.
I am thankful for my material possessions. God has given to me material resources of time, talents and treasures. I desire to use these for heavenly purposes. I find great joy in supporting the work of God across the street and across the seas.
I am thankful for my living God. I know beyond a doubt that God will continue to be sovereign over my life and ministry. God is not finished with me yet. Therefore, I will seek to worship God in thanksgiving for who he is, and what he will continue to do for me.
The gift of gratitude will teach us all that we can truly feel and experience the blessings of God when we remember and enjoy all of the wonderful things we have been given. When the times come that cause us to lose our thanksgiving spirit and are tempted to moan or complain, we need to ponder the following poem:
Forgive Me When I Whine
Today upon a bus, I saw a lovely maid with golden hair;
I envied her—she seemed so happy, and how, I wished I were so fair;
When suddenly she rose to leave, I saw her hobble down the aisle;
She had one foot and bore a crutch, but as she passed, a smile.
Oh God, forgive me when I whine, I have two feet—the world is mine.
And when I stopped to buy some sweets, the boy who served me had such charm;
He seemed to radiate good cheer, his manner was so kind and warm;
I said, “It’s nice to deal with you, such courtesy I seldom find”;
He turned and said, “Oh, thank you sir.” And then I saw that he was blind.
Oh, God, forgive me when I whine, I have two eyes—the world is mine.
Then, when walking down the street, I saw a child with eyes of blue;
She stood and watched the others play, it seemed she knew not what to do;
I stopped a moment, then I said, “Why don’t you join the others, dear?”
She looked ahead without a word, and then I knew she could not hear.
Oh God, forgive me when I whine, I have two ears—the world is mine.
With feet to take me where I’d go; with eyes to see the sunsets glow,
With ears to hear what I would know. I am blessed indeed.
The world is mine; oh, God, forgive me when I whine.
--Source unknown
"The Longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church ... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you...we are in charge of our attitudes."-- Charles Swindoll.
Are we bringing the right things to worship by cultivating thanksgiving in every season of life? Has the Lord spoken of areas in our lives that need attention? Maybe we are as filled with God’s praises as we used to be. For some reason, just going to church is more difficult than it used to be for us, and we know we need to deal with it before the Lord. Maybe we have never been saved and we want to get to know this wonderful Lord that the Bible talks about in these verses. We come and God will meet us right down here. God truly knows are hearts today. God wants us to look at what we are cultivating when it comes to thanksgiving in every season of life by what we are bringing to worship. Are we taking action through the right spirit? Are we giving account through the right surrender? Are we showing acceptance of God through the right sacrifice? Let's mind the Lord. As God calls us, we come to him with thanksgiving in every season. Amen!


