Money and Priorities
God wants us to first give ourselves to him, who is working in and through us so we can give for the benefit of others.
God has been disclosing to us from his Word that there are so many ways money can be an issue to us. Money becomes a way that we measure our value—we think we have security, significance and satisfaction. So money often becomes a source of our security, significance, and satisfaction—it becomes America’s #1 Obsession.
We want to begin this final message in our series on America’s #1 Obsession through the following exercise. Perhaps this illustration using Play-Doh can help us understand how money and priorities work together as we become partners with God in the holy work of Christ.
I’m going to pass out a canister of Play-Doh to four volunteers. As I pass out the Play-Doh it looks like I have plenty of Play-Doh to go around. Each person will receive a canister of Play-Doh. However, it looks like I’m going to be one canister short of providing Play-Doh for each volunteer. So I’m going to go back to each person who has received some Play-Doh and ask each of them to give me a portion of their Play-Doh so we will have enough for each person. This action of sharing will accumulate enough Play-Doh to enable every person to receive their share of the Play-Doh.
This little exercise teaches us some important lessons about the power of generosity and sharing—lessons we can learn when it comes to giving our resources to God for Christ’s holy work. On this Thanksgiving weekend, we celebrate the act of giving through giving thanks to God for his many blessings upon our families, church, community and nation.
We have something special in our ministry at Christ First that enables us to expand and extend our unique voice into the community. From children’s ministries to worship ministries, to student ministries and the variety of Christian education and connecting events that occur at this church, the heart of the ministry is encouraging individuals to know Christ, growing toward spiritual maturity in him in an intergenerational setting. That's the frame we should see as we give. We give not only to Christ First, but to this community and the larger Covina valley.
The motion of giving (demonstrating with the Play-Doh) activates important life-dynamics—dynamics important to the health and authenticity of our lives. Sacrificial commitment is an important dynamic in giving, but confusion exists when it comes to distinguishing between a faith-share commitment and a pledge commitment. What is the difference between the two?
Faith-Share Commitment =
A commitment to give a certain amount, which allows ministries to prepare good, logical financial planning for the year. It is understood that if God doesn’t provide the funds, we’re not obligated to give them.
Pledge Commitment =
An absolute obligation to pay something; a presumptuous type of giving.
Jesus says giving is all about attitude in Luke 6:38…
“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
Few Scripture verses are quoted more often than that verse regarding the principle of giving and receiving. Jesus reminds us that we will reap what we sow and in the amount that we sow. If our attitude is “we live to give”, God will see to it that we receive; but if our attitude is “we live only to get”, God will see to it that we lose. This principle applies not only to our giving of money, but also to the giving of ourselves in relationships with others throughout the different contexts of life.
Last May at our camp benefit dinner I secured 4 Angel baseball tickets from the silent auction. The seats were two rows right behind the Angel dugout. What excitement we experienced being so close to the action. But I’ve been going to professional baseball games and trying to get a souvenir baseball as far back as I can remember. A foul ball, a homerun ball, or even a batting practice ball—anything would do. I’ve never got a ball at any game.
So on that evening I was encouraged about my chances of getting a souvenir ball. I was so close to the action, it was a done deal. However, as the game progressed I didn’t get a ball. People all around me were getting balls, but not me. Then my attention turned to a little boy sitting right in front of us. He was attending the game with his Dad, and he wasn’t having any luck getting a ball as well. Our attention turned to this boy who was wearing his baseball glove, and the people around him were chanting for this little guy to receive a ball. Well, the boy finally received a ball from the Angel’s first base coach at the conclusion of an inning.
At the end of the game, it was even more amazing what happened to this little boy. Chone Figgins hit a triple and scored the winning run in the 10th inning. The security guard was handed a bat from Chone, and that bat was given to this boy who promptly got on the cell phone to call mom. He was in seventh heaven. Well, this happens when you attend an Angel’s game! I wouldn’t be telling this story if I was disheartened about not receiving a ball that evening. My joy in being a part of helping a boy receive a souvenir baseball and bat was my reward. I wonder how often God waits to give us something until we are willing to give it away?
Unlike the early Jesus-followers, most of us aren’t faced with the possibility of sacrificing our lives for the gospel. But we can follow the Christlike example of the Macedonians, who not only gave out of love but loved to give. The message of the gospel had gone out to the Macedonians from Jerusalem. In return, they showed their thanksgiving to God and their love for the poor saints in Jerusalem by giving to meet their needs.
This attitude can be seen in 2 Corinthians 8:1-5…
1 And now, brothers and sisters, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. 2 In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. 3 For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, 4 they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord's people. 5 And they went beyond our expectations; having given themselves first of all to the Lord, they gave themselves by the will of God also to us.
The Macedonians not only gave sacrificially but actually begged for an opportunity to give. Once they had gone beyond the first step of giving themselves to the Lord, they would then be in the position to give their possessions in love. Why? Because they had yielded their will to the God of love, who was working in and through them for the benefit of others.
How Do We Give?
Giving begins with thanksgiving unto God through the motivation of love. We give out of thanksgiving for God’s indescribable gift of love in Jesus (2 Corinthians 9:15). Jesus in return gave out of love when he left heaven and equality with God to come to earth. It was because of love that Jesus became a servant and gave his life to save us from our sins. And the Bible tells us that God was motivated by love when he gave his only unique Son.
The acronym G.I.V.E. will represent the Macedonian’s priorities of Thanks-Giving:
1. Thanks-Giving enables us to grow
1 And now, brothers and sisters, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. 2 In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity.
The Macedonians gave out of great risk. They had not simply gone through “trial’: they were in the midst of severe trial, and yet they had given generously. They were in extreme poverty, which means “rock-bottom destitution”. The word describes a beggar who has absolutely nothing and has no hope of getting anything. But their circumstances did not hinder them from giving. In fact, they gave joyfully and generously.
There's often a part of the act of giving that's risky. When we give to another or to a cause, there's usually a risk involved. It might be a financial risk or a risk to share some of our energy or time. It might be a risk because we have to stretch ourselves into new territory. Risk can be a wonderfully frightening place to be, both wonderful and frightening. And it's at the intersection of wonder and healthy fright (or risk) that we grow. Is it a hard place to be? Yes, but it has been said, and we must take note: "Those who tremble are never bored."
Giving—the act of turning toward another and releasing our energy and life to that person—activates our growth. Is there a risk we need to take today? Growth awaits!
2. Thanks-Giving invites us to invest
3 For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability.
The Macedonians invested even beyond their ability. It is possible to give generously but not invest enthusiastically. They needed no prompting or reminding. When they gave they finally invested their lives somewhere and in something where they could make a difference.
Many people today don’t know what to do with their lives. They wrestle with what to do with the rest of their lives because they want to keep making a difference—even expand their influence. Most of the time we don't find the next piece of our calling only through reflection. We find what's next by remaining faithful to invest in what is and risking toward what could be.
Giving—the act of making a difference beyond our ability—stimulates our investment. Is there an investment we need to make today? Supply awaits!
3. Thanks-Giving clarifies our values
3 …Entirely on their own, 4 they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord's people.
The Macedonians had their values clarified in their giving. Their giving was voluntarily and spontaneously offered. In fact, they begged to be included in the investment of God’s work. How many times have we heard a Jesus-follower beg for somebody to take an offering? It was of grace, not pressure. Grace not only freed them from their sins, but it freed them from themselves. The grace of God opened their hearts along with their hands. This service to the Lord’s people helped them to see their values more clearly.
The motion of giving clarifies our values as well. What we give our energy, money, and time to is what we really value. If we look at how we invest we’ll see what we value. For all of us there are probably things we would like to value more. When we find one of these areas we often spend a lot of time talking about how we wish we could value this or that.
Let's take the value of good health as an example. Most of us would say we want to make health a value. OK, well, exercise, rest and nutrition are a part of good health. Do we really value health? Then we should do something. We give ourselves to something that will recreate it -- like exercise, rest and nutrition. We can be good at talking about good health, reading books, even buying videos and equipment. We can do all of that and never really value good health. Why? We’re not giving ourselves to it. What we give our time and energy to is what we value.
Giving—the act of sharing in the Lord’s service—clarifies our values. Is there a service we need to utilize today? Purpose awaits!
4. Thanks-Giving requires us to engage
5 And they went beyond our expectations; having given themselves first of all to the Lord, they gave themselves by the will of God also to us.
The Macedonians not only gave themselves to the Lord, but they engaged themselves to God’s people. When they gave; when they shared their resources and life-energy, they engaged other people in the process. Giving offered the Macedonians the opportunity to be in community with others—to serve others and to find the lives of others changing them as well.
The bond of a relationship is strengthened as we give to each other. The measure of a person's friendships is proportionate to the person's engagement and giving in those relationships. The more we give, the stronger the bond. Now, of course not every bond can be equally strong. We can't give all of ourselves to everyone. But, our friendships do strengthen as we give because when we give to another person, that person's well being increases. Community is directly related to giving.
Giving—the act of bonding with others in the Lord—requires us to engage. Is their a relationship we need to strengthen today? Community awaits!
So the examples of Jesus and the Macedonians teach us an important perspective when it comes to money and priorities. Sacrificial giving is a way to give honor to God, but it also should be the result of a good attitude or gratitude of thanksgiving, not a desire to impress others. Three perspectives on sacrificial giving are prevalent when it comes to money and priorities:
The Eternal Perspective: Is what we are doing going to last forever?
The Practical Perspective: How can we live and do what we must do?
The Missions Perspective: What could this money do for others?
To become a Jesus-follower…
ADMIT that you are a sinner who needs a Savior.
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23)
BELIEVE that Jesus is the only Savior available.
Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name given under heaven by which we must be saved. (Acts 4:12)
CHOOSE to follow Jesus.
Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God. (John 1:12)
PRAYER: “Jesus, thank you for loving me so much that you died on the cross to pay in full for all of my sins. I am sorry for going my own way for so long. I now admit that I am a sinner who needs a Savior. I believe that Heaven is a gift that you alone can give me, a gift that I cannot earn and will never deserve. Help me to become your child—the individual you created me to be as I choose to follow you and become a worldchanger.”
Paul Brand was a brilliant medical doctor who did pioneering work in the treatment of leprosy. He passed away in 2003 at the age of 89. He was an extraordinary, gifted orthopaedic surgeon who straightened crooked hands and unravelled the riddle of leprosy. He had received the Albert Lasker Award, been made a Commander of the Order of the British Empire by the Queen, served as the only Westerner on the Mahatma Ghandi foundation, and had medical procedures named after him. Brand grew up in India, where his parents were missionaries. At the age of nine he was sent to boarding school in England. Five years later, while a 14 year old student there, he received a telegram informing him that his beloved father had died of blackwater fever. Brand cherished fond memories of his father, a man who had a great love for people and a great love for the natural world around him. A short time after he received news of his father's death Paul Brand received a letter from his father. It had been posted prior to his father's death but took some time to reach Brand as it came by ship. Its words impacted deeply upon the young son. Paul's father described the hills around their home and then finished with these words: "God means us to delight in his world. It isn't necessary to know botany or zoology or biology in order to enjoy the manifold life of nature. Just observe. And remember. And compare. And be always looking to God with thankfulness and worship for having placed you in such a delightful corner of the universe as the planet Earth."
We gather this Thanksgiving weekend in a delightful corner of the universe, looking to God with thankfulness and worship. This week we will have multiple occasions to offer another person a piece of our Play-Doh. When we offer it, we must remember—giving will enable us to grow, will allow us to invest, will clarify our values and will require us to engage. GIVE -- Grow, Invest, Value, and Engage. On this Thanksgiving weekend, it's a four-letter word worth repeating and living! Amen.


